You Don’t Have To Take Off Your Clothes

WARNING: This post contains graphic descriptions of human sexuality.  It may not be suitable for parents.

Condoms are distributed on request in my city’s high schools.  They seem to be reducing the rate of unwanted pregnancies and venereal diseases despite how loudly some parents are screaming.

“My little Susie doesn’t do THAT!” Right.  I used to know little Susie and she did do that – plus a lot of other stuff.  These kids aren’t getting pregnant and STD’s from the Tooth Fairy.  It’s time we accepted reality and help them make better choices.

People believe we have sex education in schools but what we really have are organ recitals.  A clear list of choices (including abstinence and “How to Tell Your Boyfriend “No”) should be taught early. One of those choices should be outercourse.

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Although definitions vary, outercourse is sex play without vaginal, anal, or oral penetration.  Outercourse can include hot talk, erotic fantasy, spicy role-plays, sensual massage, bathing together, mutual masturbation, and dry sex (aka: dry humping or frottage).

Outercourse is simple, convenient, and free and can satisfy both partners.  But the main advantages are there’s virtually no chance for unwanted pregnancies or diseases. 

Skeptical?  Think kids will just slide into “home” without rounding first, second, and third “base?”  Maybe.  But until they learn there are many other exciting options, we’re going to continue to get what we’ve got which is tragic.

Outercourse:  https://www.google.com/

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