Bound To Please

Maniacs and murderers have given BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism) a bad name. Although I’m not a devotee, I know people who are. So do you – they’re just not telling you about it.

There seems to be a growing trend in alternative sex practices among married people and those who are not.  Their “limits” are sane, safe, consensual, adult sex. There’s usually a ‘dominant’ and a ‘submissive’ in these role plays. If you’re not role-playing, you’ve probably got some real problems.

Submissives get their own ‘safe’ words. Think of it as an automatic stop button.  This word, which should be totally out of context, is called when the submissive has reached the point of all she or he can endure.  I don’t think masochists use safe words.

It must be very awkward if the submissive forgets her special word and the spankings (or whatever) continues.  I guess you can say, in that case, she’s fucked.



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